Classroom Community: Who was included? Who was left out?

Who was included?  Who was left out?

One of my goals for this school year, as I found myself back in the role of classroom teacher with 32 second graders, was to build a true classroom community.  I read about Peace Circles last Summer, and remembered sitting in a "Magic Circle" myself in 1970something.  I made a collection of songs, and practiced them on my guitar.  I taught my kids to sing This Land is Your Land, This land is My Land and It's A Small World.  Today, in my mind, there is a bit of a negative connotation to the idea of peace and love, but also something nostalgic and idealistic.  I am an idealist.  I'll admit it, I like lofty goals.  The pragmatic part of me knows it isn't always easy or practical to include that kid who can't keep himself from bouncing all around the room.  It's hard not to send away the little girl who so often hurts others with the words she can't hold back.  But the peace loving hippy, the novice teacher at heart, loves the idea of creating a place for kids to feel safe and supported, valued and encouraged, inspired and loved.  I'm going to keep working on it!

Isn't this a beautiful picture of kids?  A circle of gentle hands, patience and sunshine?  Yes, it is! And, they are mine.  My little community of learners.  But upon reflection...  how many do you see in this picture?

     Who is included?  

These are my strongest personalities.  These are the ones who listened to my advice, "Be still... stay back... watch them fly... make sure everyone can see!"  But then, they couldn't resist the urge to inch forward.

• Neither could I... but I'm the teacher, right?  The teacher gets to move, to touch!
• The boy with the mohawk.  He's our scientist, so of course he can't resist the natural impulse to get closer.  Can't stop that curiosity!  Let him move forward, he brought us the tadpoles and newts.  He brought cow magnets, geodes and homemade tornadoes for sharing time.
• The boy in the baseball cap.  He's the one who sits on a ball in class to help him control his body and pay better attention.  Look how gentle he is!  Of course I can't stop him from creeping forward.
• The little girl I mentioned before, the one with angry words.  Oh my!  She reaches out her hand and crawls on her knees toward the butterfly... just wishing, just hoping, she might be the one it chooses to land on.  Just once, to be the one selected.  Wouldn't it be wonderful?
• Front and center.  She is strong and brave and kind.  She is wiggling in, so she can scoop up that sweet little butterfly, and bring it to her friend still sitting in the circle criss cross apple sauce just waiting for his turn.  But notice, her hand is on the bottom of the pile?  She will bring us all up and along with her where she goes.  Can't wait to see who she turns out to be!

Who is left behind?

With 32 kids, this has been my biggest struggle all year long.  Who do I spend that extra few minutes of one-on-one time with?  Who do I leave be, because he will do just fine without me?  Oh... but is that the one who needed me most, and was too polite to say?  After 45 minutes of math workplaces, the one who whispers, "I was waiting... and you never got to me."  In the butterfly circle... I can tell you who is left behind.  But I worry because there are some, that maybe I can't tell you enough about.  Next year, I will do better.  

• The independent, creative, and well... sometimes stubborn one.  She likes to do things her way, in her time, and yes... sometimes it's all about her.  Today, she wants so badly to participate and prove me wrong.  She can do it, she will listen.  She will wait her turn.  And, because she waited today... she didn't get to touch the butterfly.  But, she saw him fly!
• Our wonderful funny one.  He's telling us all about it, and has his own little community in the corner of the courtyard.  Butterflies?  What about beetles, and ants and ... hey!?  What will happen to our butterfly with the bent wing?  What about that robin over there?  Does he eat butterflies?
• The girl with all the stories in her head.  Is looking enough?  Will that butterfly fly so she can tell his tale?  Or will he get crumpled under too many feet?
• The kids in the middle.  I didn't think to give them extra attention, to clear a path for each of them to see... I tried, but there were too many.  The moment passed too quickly.  Because butterflies sit still for a moment, and then they are off!

Some things I have read lately, that inspired this question of Who was included?  Who was left out?...

Responsive Classroom

Peace Circles: A Talking and Listening Community

And these, make me wonder about our Positive Behavior Support policies.  In my classroom, in our school.  Who is included?  Who is left out?

Peaceful Playgrounds Campaign

Why Kids Need Recess

One Way to Wreck a Child's Education: Take Away Recess (Huffington Post Parents)

Humpty, do you need a hand? I promise to be careful.

Teacher friends, I know change is difficult.  Humpty Dumpty is so fragile, but should we help him off the wall?

It has been a few years since I read the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett, but there is a quote from the book that I have thought about, when I have been thinking about writing...

Skeeter is given the advice, "Write about what disturbs you, particularly if it bothers no one else."

Sometimes I have pondered using this advice, but though I know most of the page views to this blog are my own, I am not so sure I am as brave as Stockett's character.  I don't want to unintentionally paint any of my hard working, dedicated colleagues in a negative light.  We all have strengths and weaknesses, and also differing points of view.  I know that the teachers in my building are all 100% committed to doing their absolute best for our children.  So, to write about things that I don't necessarily feel are right does not mean that I have less admiration for these friends.

My divergent opinions may not inspire an educational movement, or bring to light any issue as glaring as those impacting the civil rights of folks living in Stockett's Jackson Mississippi, but there are a few things that I wonder about.

Titles and Topics for future blog posts

1.  I have been waiting for Common Core Curriculum Standards!  I am an American, born and raised to be an individual, trained to teach to the National Curriculum in the United Kingdom.   What can be wrong about high standards for everyone, shouldn't we all have this in common?

2.  Floatin' down the river!  My bulletin board as a metaphor for what happens inside my classroom...

3. Time to teach vs. Time for Pinterest.  Cutsie vs. Content or can we work together?  Let's think carefully about how we use arts and crafts to inspire creativity, and teach skills.

So... which should I write about first?

Just because I can, doesn't make it right.

So I did a little research today, and the only colored illustrations of Alice in Wonderland by Sir John Tenniel (as far as I can tell) are from the Nursery Alice.  And, in the public domain.  It is so nice to find art to use on my blog page that I know is honest...

I will be honest, I have gotten in the habit of taking whatever images meet my purposes... for my daily schedule displayed in class, or for a classroom illustration of a concept.  Does this count as personal use?  Is this legal?  Am I pushing the boundaries of copyright law?  I need to do some further research, it is clear...

A good resource:  http://www.teachingcopyright.org/
And a great edublog post: http://theedublogger.com/2012/02/09/the-educators-guide-to-copyright-fair-use-and-creative-commons/

Blogs, Blogging, and Edublogging

Today I learned that…
 Ben is right.  I moved this post from my edublog post.  I will use google Blogger.
 Here is my post from my Edublog called "What I learned at school today" moved over here...

Today I learned that...

It can take a long time trying to learn something new on the internet!

I’ve found lots of great classroom setup ideas on pinterest, but three hours just disappeared from my Summer. I am searching for ideas to create a welcoming bulletin board outside my classroom door, but it seems like many pins and repins are of the same bulletin board. Also, I want it to be a board that welcomes students and families to OUR classroom. I want it to represent us, what we believe in, and what a visitor will discover in OUR classroom. I am not welcoming families to Mrs. Internet’s classroom, I am welcoming you to room #9, OUR room, YOUR room and MINE too.
Pinterest, was a place to start. But, I don’t think it will end there.

When I follow the links to the original pin, I do find some cool teacher blogs. The ones that I find most useful are the ones that tell stories. I don’t mean that I find narratives, but I have discovered a few blogs that make me imagine what it is like to be in that teacher’s room.

I learned that, maybe I don’t want to be a Pinterest follower, maybe I want to be a teacher’s blog collector.

But, first I figured I need to start my own blog. Not that I haven’t done this before… I have a blog through my school district. It was once a district expectation that we posted to our blogs weekly, then monthly. Then the tech people started a wiki. And then we learned about google docs. They dropped the posting obligations, and many teachers complained that parents aren’t looking at the blogs anyway. I thought, “maybe your blog just isn’t very interesting….” Neither was mine. I posted what I thought would be useful. I am good at sharing useful information, and I certainly know my blog won’t get views because of my humor. I’m just not funny. That has always been my sister’s role in our family, not mine. Maybe she should start a blog. Anyway, I added a counter to my blog. I did get some views. Maybe they were all me, checking the counter on my blog.

I imagine parents want to see pictures of their kids, I like to look at pictures of my adorable boys! Well, they aren’t exactly cute anymore now that they are young adults, but I still stalk their Facebook pages for images of their smiling faces. I made some videos and slideshows for my kindergarten classroom blog, and I labeled the post: Take a peek into our classroom! Someone misunderstood, someone complained, and my principal asked me if I had a video feed of my classroom linked to my blog. Really? No. Yes, he really needed an answer to the question.

I learned, I can’t try to be metaphorical or I will be misunderstood.

State it clearly on the classroom blog: Click this link, the one below this typing, it’s blue, and you will find pictures of students in our class whose parents have signed permission to use photos of their child on my blog page. No wonder, the blogs don’t tell good stories. Just to be clear, there is no link below this text. There are no classroom videos of kids on this blog page, the one you (meaning me, the reader, re-reading what I just wrote, for an audience of one, me) are reading right now.

Anyway…. the questions, to which I have not yet learned the answers… remain.

Should I maintain a blog? Well I already have started one or two… three.
Which one is the keeper?
Which is the most useful blogging platform? Because I know I won’t have time to write on all three.
Will anyone want to read my blog? Remember, it won’t be funny.
Do I have any insights that other teachers might be interested in?
Can my blog just be a personal journal, my own teacher reflection space?
Am I content to be the only reader of my blog?

Before making online decisions, best to consult Ben

OK, I decided.  One blog it is... well, in addition to my school blog.  Thanks for the conversation, my Ben.

Edublog - limited unless I pay, I'm not likely to use with my 2nd graders anyway.

Blogger - already connected to my google accounts (including docs, email and photos), and free

Granny Smith

And the moral of this story?

I introduced her to blogging...


http://roadtripwithgranny.wordpress.com/